I know that many of you have seen the video with Iyanla and DMX but I watched it again tonight. It disturbs me that he looked at the situation as if his son was being unjust with his request. Nobody wants to be around a father that depends on substances to make him happy. I, like Iyanla, respect this guy in his young age. He is a special young man and when a young man is as mature and stable in his paternal situation it puts a smile on my face. Not everybody is like the bad side of their family - and this guy is a perfect example. I applaud and respect him.