Work, kids, responsibilities, marriage... if it ain't one thing it's another. Keeping your head above water seems like a job in itself! Then you always have to realize that it is not your job to be in control at all times. Maybe that's the problem. We try to control too much ourselves without giving it to God. If you can't handle it what makes you think God can't? Your biggest problem is small to GOD. So let down your hair, put on some jazz and regroup. It's going to be better... if we hand it over to him... Trust me on this one.